Dear friend, this world is full of negativity and regardless of whatever people say, we need to face this negativity and find ways to get over it. But it is you who have to decide. Who is in charge of your life, you or your surroundings? Once you decide that you are in charge of whatever happens to you, you will put your foot down and get over whatever negativity surrounds you.
It is easy for us to remain in the shelter of our comfort zone, but have you ever tried stepping out of your comfort zone and taking a sneak peek into what lies beyond? What exactly prevents you from doing so? Failure? Fears? Shame?
The basic thing that you need to do to improve yourself is first, to have a goal and set some objectives. Once you know where you are headed, you will easily maintain your focus and not be distracted.
Next is to make some concrete plans which can enable you to go for your goals. While planning, don’t just think within your comfort zone. Step out of the box in order to discover a newer you. Identify your problems and limitations and use techniques to get over them. Make sure that you know what your weaknesses are and correct them while being in the domain of the ethical values that you cherish.
Execute your plan and don’t worry whether you have succeeded or not. Failures will not break you, but rather will strengthen you. Rework your plans. If they fail, identify loopholes and use methods which will help you overcome these loopholes. Every failure teaches you what to avoid and ends in giving you a big lesson. Learn from these lessons so that you can strengthen the newer you.
Seek to avoid negative thoughts and people. Such thoughts and words tend to self limit your potential and make you weak. If you believe in your plans, you focus on your goals and make changes only if you wish to, regardless of what others say. This approach will allow you to overcome the obstacles that block your way.
Lastly, you need to enjoy life and the happiness that it brings. When you are happy and contented, your mind will work faster and success will come your way. So hold on to your dreams, take control of your life and enjoy the journey with the newer you.
Until next time, make this a week one in which you are living your life to the fullest.
With appreciation and gratitude
Nigel St.Hill
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Nigel St. Hill is a writer and a life and money management coach helping people who are ready discover their path to money, abundance and prosperity, so that they could live the life of their dreams. He is the founder of http://www.moneyandabundance.com and author of the book, Money Management Caribbean Style and several ebooks including The Easy Cash Flow System, How to Keep Your Doors Open in a Recession. Creative But Practical Ways to Save money, 12 Secrets to Having a Romantic Relationship, Ten Easy Ways to Empowerment
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